Your kid wants to save $1,000 for a console. You're not sure whether to encourage it or steer them lower. Here's how to think about it.
The Case for Big Goals
- Teaches long-term thinking
- Builds real patience
- The pride of hitting it is enormous
The Case for Small Wins
- Quick success keeps motivation high
- Failure on a big goal can discourage
- Small habits beat dramatic targets
The Best Answer
Both. Pair the big goal with weekly mini-wins so motivation never dries up.